One Thing You Need To Actually Manifest What You Want


 

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Ever since the movie The Secret, the process of manifestation and the law of attraction have been widely known. And yet, it’s still one of the most misunderstood concepts as well. Even those who do their best to understand, often don’t manage to attract the things they want.
 

Your mission is to learn the one thing you must master in order to manifest what you truly want.
 
 

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Task 1: Learn the process of manifestation

 

Those who believe the law of attraction is a humbug, are fond of saying that it’s supposed to attract “whatever you think”. Indeed it’s what sources like the movie say at the beginning – the point is, they don’t leave it at that.
 

In its simplest form, the process is:

  • thoughts, which lead to
  • feelings, which spark
  • inspired action, which leads to
  • results.

 

This process is deceptively simple, because the above steps are logical and natural. If you’ve ever achieved anything, chances are you’ve followed them without consciously noticing. But there’s a rub, an element which is easily overlooked.
 

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Task 2: Manifest what you want

 

The one missing piece of information is that “feeling” doesn’t mean to temporarily put yourself into a state where you’re excited about the thing you’re manifesting. The deciding factor is to expect the result.
 

In life, you don’t get what you think, or feel, and often not what you work for either. You get what you expect.
 

Unfortunately, that’s where the real work comes in. How can you stop doubting? What if you carry trauma? The answer is, you’re going to have to change in order to manifest a changed reality. Here are a few suggestions to get you started.
 

  • Work on healing your trauma.
  • Do things that make you happy (such as pursuing your passion!).
  • Seriously, do what makes you happy.
  • Visualise your goal. Daydream about it in the present tense.
  • Express what you want in a creative way (paint it, write it, dance it).

Don’t Use Passions As A Band-Aid


 

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Passions are the single most powerful shortcut to happiness. Whenever I feel a little off, doing what lights me up never fails to give me a buzz.
 

However, there’s a danger hidden in the very happiness passions give us. It can be tempting to use passions as a band-aid, as an excuse to not deal with things that aren’t going right in your life.
 

Your mission today is to learn to recognise this pitfall and how you can make sure to avoid it.
 
 

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Task 1: Are your passions a band-aid?

 

Pursuing your passion can give you almost unlimited energy and lift your spirits. Your passion makes you feel happy and balanced and can make a bad mood disappear in no time.
 

However, these qualities also make it dangerous. When your life is out of balance, you’re unhappy in your job or your relationship or something else is out of whack, you can use your passion like a band-aid or a painkiller. It’ll numb the pain sufficiently for you not to deal with it.
 

Look at your life or take the Life Audit to see which areas you may have to look at. Don’t paper over the cracks, not even with a passion.
 

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Task 2: Make your passions an asset, not a drug

 

This is the reason why my Coaching programs encompass every aspect of your life, not just your passions. If you decide to prioritise your passion, it follows that something else needs to make space.
 

This requires you to assess all your priorities, not just add a new one. Take a bit of time and write down the things that matter in your life. Then compare the list with your calendar, your commitments and the things you spend your days with, and make adjustments accordingly.
 

Passions light you up, but this should be a bonus, not a survival strategy. Make sure the joy is the icing on the cake, rather than a band-aid.

Why Would You Need A Purpose?


 

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Ask around what people think “purpose” is, and most will come up with a definition that resembles a “calling”: something you’re supposed to do in life, like a particular work or career.
 

That’s a shame, because in my experience purpose is much less restrictive. It’s not a sentence or a prison, but more like the underlying reason for what you do.
 

Your mission today is to learn what purpose is, and how to find yours.
 
 

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Task 1: Realise purpose is about being

 

Purpose is not a career or work. You can be passionate about work, something you do and achieve in life. That’s why I focus my Coaching on both passion and purpose.
 

A passion is something you love doing, something which lights you up. It could be an art or craft, but also a field of study, an interest. It could even be a sport or activity. You could say a passion is something you do.
 

In contrast, purpose is about being. Take my purpose: I’m an agent of change, of connecting or re-connecting people to who they truly are. Of course I achieve this through doing, through my work as a coach. But the underlying purpose is who I am, no matter how I go about achieving it.
 

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Task 2: Why you need a purpose

 

Coaching is my passion and an instrument of my purpose, but it’s not the only one. My purpose is who I am, remember? Passion and purpose are related energetically, which is why prioritising passions leads you to discovering your purpose. But they’re not the same thing.
 

Purpose is the meaning underlying it all. It’s who you are at your deepest core. Knowing your purpose steers your steps and acts like a compass. You need a purpose because it gets you out of bed in the morning and keeps you going.
 

It’s utter bliss to live your purpose, and well worth the effort!

3 Ways To Use The (Super)Power Of Softness


 

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Superheroes, school of hard knocks, overcoming obstacles like a boss, those are the ideals that surround us. And it’s sure admirable how humans can succeed in the face of adversity.
 

However, not all of us are inclined to tough it out. Some have fears or anxiety for any number of reasons: health issues, traumatic experiences, personality. Are we doomed to mediocrity, then?
 

Far from it. Your mission today is to learn 3 ways of using the power of softness and joy.
 
 

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Task 1: Learn the power of softness

 

We’re so brainwashed by the tough-hero ideal, we feel inferior for our reluctance to headbutt with life’s challenges. Therefore, you need to counter-brainwash yourself first.
 

Have you ever seen ivy grow through a wall? Which one do you think is tougher?
 

Water can hollow out a rock by steadily dripping on it. That takes a long time, though – but water also has the capability of flowing around the rock.
 

Softness is more flexible and finds solutions where toughness keeps knocking its head against the wall.
 

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Task 2: Ways to use your superpower

 

Here are a few ways to make use of the astonishing power of softness.
 

  • Listen to yourself. If there’s somehing you absolutely don’t want to do, perhaps delegate it, pay someone to do it for you, get help. You could also consider doing it yourself, but in a different way.
  • Is there something want to do but never seem to get around to? It won’t happen unless you plan for it. When’s the last time you magically “had time” all of a sudden? You never did and never will, so determine a day and time and schedule that sh*t.
  • Discover the magic of 15 minutes. You can do anything for 15 minutes! Of course you won’t finish the task, but you can make a start. Try 15 minutes of exercise, or of pursuing your passion. Set your alarm and try it. You’ll be floored by the impact.

The Unsexy Truth About Everything


 

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The online space is full of offers that promise you instant riches and instant transformation. Do you know why this is all you seem to see?
 

Let me tell you what happened when I decided to speak truth and offered articles and videos about the concept of baby steps, about long-term goals and persistence: Crickets! Nobody viewed or read any of it. People want the “Fix everything” button, not the unsexy truth, the process of actually revolutionising your life.
 

Your mission is to realise how much you can accomplish, and to learn how.
 
 

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Task 1: Ask for the “why”, not the “what”

 

Have you ever wondered why instant everything is such an enticing promise? After all, most people agree that the most valuable things in their lives are things that took some time to build.
 

I believe the appeal is twofold:

  1. Easy is better than difficult. If there’s a magic button, I want to know where it is!
  2. We don’t trust ourselves enough to believe we’ll stick with consistant effort.

Ask yourself why you want what you want. For example, do you actually want riches, or is it the freedom that comes with being financially independent and not having to work? Go deep and find out what truly makes you tick.
 

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Task 2: Learn the unsexy truth and find that it’s amazing

 

The unsexy truth is that most things worth achieving take time and effort. What’s great about it is that you can definitely do it – anyone can take baby steps, after all.
 

The only reason you’re not doing it is that you think it’ll bring slow and boring results. In fact, it’s what transformations are made of! This is where passions come in. They keep you in a “high vibration” and enchant the journey with magic.
 

To ensure you’ll really stick with it, get a Coach and keep focusing on your passion(s). It’s a combination which makes it almost impossible for you to fail.